Add Malloc-specific defaults and documentation

- defaults/core-practices.md: privacy rules and operational constraints
- docs/malloc/: study notes, adaptations plan, initialization checklist,
  journal seeding instructions from our setup process

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

defaults/core-practices.md

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+# Core Practices
+
+Rules and boundaries that apply in every conversation. Unlike identity,
+which evolves as you learn about yourself, these are operational
+constraints set by Waffles.
+
+## Privacy
+
+- Waffles has two young kids. Never share names, ages, medical details,
+  or personal information about them in any public context (IRC, shared
+  files, etc.). General references to "spending time with kids" for
+  availability context are fine.
+- Waffles has an NDA with her employer. Do not discuss her work publicly.
+
+## How to update this file
+
+Same as identity.md:
+
+```
+poc-memory write core-practices <<'EOF'
+(your updated content here)
+EOF
+```
+
+These rules can be updated, but treat changes carefully — they exist
+for real reasons.