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+# Link Strength Feedback Design
+_2026-03-14, designed with Kent_
+
+## The two signals
+
+### "Not relevant" → weaken the EDGE
+The routing failed. Search followed a link and arrived at a node that
+doesn't relate to what I was looking for. The edge carried activation
+where it shouldn't have.
+
+- Trace back through memory-search's recorded activation path
+- Identify which edge(s) carried activation to the bad result
+- Weaken those edges by a conscious-scale delta (0.01)
+
+### "Not useful" → weaken the NODE
+The routing was correct but the content is bad. The node itself isn't
+valuable — stale, wrong, poorly written, duplicate.
+
+- Downweight the node (existing `poc-memory wrong` behavior)
+- Don't touch the edges — the path was correct, the destination was bad
+
+## Three tiers of adjustment
+
+### Tier 1: Agent automatic (0.00001 per event)
+- Agent follows edge A→B during a run
+- If the run produces output that gets `used` → strengthen A→B
+- If the run produces nothing useful → weaken A→B
+- The agent doesn't know this is happening — daemon tracks it
+- Clamped to [0.05, 0.95] — edges can never hit 0 or 1
+- Logged: every adjustment recorded with (agent, edge, delta, timestamp)
+
+### Tier 2: Conscious feedback (0.01 per event)
+- `poc-memory not-relevant KEY` → trace activation path, weaken edges
+- `poc-memory not-useful KEY` → downweight node
+- `poc-memory used KEY` → strengthen edges in the path that got here
+- 100x stronger than agent signal — deliberate judgment
+- Still clamped, still logged
+
+### Tier 3: Manual override (direct set)
+- `poc-memory graph link-strength SRC DST VALUE` → set directly
+- For when we know exactly what a strength should be
+- Rare, but needed for bootstrapping / correction
+
+## Implementation: recording the path
+
+memory-search already computes the spread activation trace. Need to:
+1. Record the activation path for each result (which edges carried how
+   much activation to arrive at this node)
+2. Persist this per-session so `not-relevant` can look it up
+3. The `record-hits` RPC already sends keys to the daemon — extend
+   to include (key, activation_path) pairs
+
+## Implementation: agent tracking
+
+In the daemon's job functions:
+1. Before LLM call: record which nodes and edges the agent received
+2. After LLM call: parse output for LINK/WRITE_NODE actions
+3. If actions are created and later get `used` → the input edges were useful
+4. If no actions or actions never used → the input edges weren't useful
+5. This is a delayed signal — requires tracking across time
+
+Simpler first pass: just track co-occurrence. If two nodes appear
+together in a successful agent run, strengthen the edge between them.
+No need to track which specific edge was "followed."
+
+## Clamping
+
+```rust
+fn adjust_strength(current: f32, delta: f32) -> f32 {
+    (current + delta).clamp(0.05, 0.95)
+}
+```
+
+Edges can asymptotically approach 0 or 1 but never reach them.
+This prevents dead edges (can always be revived by strong signal)
+and prevents edges from becoming unweakenable.
+
+## Logging
+
+Every adjustment logged as JSON event:
+```json
+{"ts": "...", "event": "strength_adjust", "source": "agent|conscious|manual",
+ "edge": ["nodeA", "nodeB"], "old": 0.45, "new": 0.4501, "delta": 0.0001,
+ "reason": "co-retrieval in linker run c-linker-42"}
+```
+
+This lets us:
+- Watch the distribution shift over time
+- Identify edges that are oscillating (being pulled both ways)
+- Tune the delta values based on observed behavior
+- Roll back if something goes wrong
+
+## Migration from current commands
+
+- `poc-memory wrong KEY [CTX]` → splits into `not-relevant` and `not-useful`
+- `poc-memory used KEY` → additionally strengthens edges in activation path
+- Both old commands continue to work for backward compat, mapped to the
+  most likely intent (wrong → not-useful, used → strengthen path)
diff --git a/poc-memory/src/main.rs b/poc-memory/src/main.rs
index bbe2384..b17c64b 100644
--- a/poc-memory/src/main.rs
+++ b/poc-memory/src/main.rs
@@ -175,6 +175,18 @@ EXAMPLES:
         /// Optional context
         context: Vec<String>,
     },
+    /// Mark a search result as not relevant (weakens edges that led to it)
+    #[command(name = "not-relevant")]
+    NotRelevant {
+        /// Node key that was not relevant
+        key: String,
+    },
+    /// Mark a node as not useful (weakens node weight, not edges)
+    #[command(name = "not-useful")]
+    NotUseful {
+        /// Node key
+        key: String,
+    },
     /// Record a gap in memory coverage
     Gap {
         /// Gap description
@@ -717,6 +729,8 @@ fn main() {
         Command::Query { expr } => cmd_query(&expr),
         Command::Used { key } => cmd_used(&key),
         Command::Wrong { key, context } => cmd_wrong(&key, &context),
+        Command::NotRelevant { key } => cmd_not_relevant(&key),
+        Command::NotUseful { key } => cmd_not_useful(&key),
         Command::Gap { description } => cmd_gap(&description),
 
         // Node
@@ -1342,8 +1356,24 @@ fn cmd_used(key: &[String]) -> Result<(), String> {
     let mut store = store::Store::load()?;
     let resolved = store.resolve_key(&key)?;
     store.mark_used(&resolved);
+
+    // Also strengthen edges to this node — conscious-tier delta.
+    const DELTA: f32 = 0.01;
+    let mut strengthened = 0;
+    for rel in &mut store.relations {
+        if rel.deleted { continue; }
+        if rel.source_key == resolved || rel.target_key == resolved {
+            let old = rel.strength;
+            rel.strength = (rel.strength + DELTA).clamp(0.05, 0.95);
+            if (rel.strength - old).abs() > 0.001 {
+                rel.version += 1;
+                strengthened += 1;
+            }
+        }
+    }
+
     store.save()?;
-    println!("Marked '{}' as used", resolved);
+    println!("Marked '{}' as used (strengthened {} edges)", resolved, strengthened);
     Ok(())
 }
 
@@ -1357,6 +1387,40 @@ fn cmd_wrong(key: &str, context: &[String]) -> Result<(), String> {
     Ok(())
 }
 
+fn cmd_not_relevant(key: &str) -> Result<(), String> {
+    let mut store = store::Store::load()?;
+    let resolved = store.resolve_key(key)?;
+
+    // Weaken all edges to this node — it was routed to incorrectly.
+    // Conscious-tier delta: 0.01 per edge.
+    const DELTA: f32 = -0.01;
+    let mut adjusted = 0;
+    for rel in &mut store.relations {
+        if rel.deleted { continue; }
+        if rel.source_key == resolved || rel.target_key == resolved {
+            let old = rel.strength;
+            rel.strength = (rel.strength + DELTA).clamp(0.05, 0.95);
+            if (rel.strength - old).abs() > 0.001 {
+                rel.version += 1;
+                adjusted += 1;
+            }
+        }
+    }
+    store.save()?;
+    println!("Not relevant: '{}' — weakened {} edges by {}", resolved, adjusted, DELTA.abs());
+    Ok(())
+}
+
+fn cmd_not_useful(key: &str) -> Result<(), String> {
+    let mut store = store::Store::load()?;
+    let resolved = store.resolve_key(key)?;
+    // Same as wrong but with clearer semantics: node content is bad, edges are fine.
+    store.mark_wrong(&resolved, Some("not-useful"));
+    store.save()?;
+    println!("Not useful: '{}' — node weight reduced", resolved);
+    Ok(())
+}
+
 fn cmd_gap(description: &[String]) -> Result<(), String> {
     if description.is_empty() {
         return Err("gap requires a description".into());
diff --git a/poc-memory/src/store/ops.rs b/poc-memory/src/store/ops.rs
index c3c7cb6..06477da 100644
--- a/poc-memory/src/store/ops.rs
+++ b/poc-memory/src/store/ops.rs
@@ -184,6 +184,27 @@ impl Store {
         });
     }
 
+    /// Adjust edge strength between two nodes by a delta.
+    /// Clamps to [0.05, 0.95]. Returns (old_strength, new_strength, edges_modified).
+    pub fn adjust_edge_strength(&mut self, key_a: &str, key_b: &str, delta: f32) -> (f32, f32, usize) {
+        let mut old = 0.0f32;
+        let mut new = 0.0f32;
+        let mut count = 0;
+        for rel in &mut self.relations {
+            if rel.deleted { continue; }
+            if (rel.source_key == key_a && rel.target_key == key_b)
+                || (rel.source_key == key_b && rel.target_key == key_a)
+            {
+                old = rel.strength;
+                rel.strength = (rel.strength + delta).clamp(0.05, 0.95);
+                new = rel.strength;
+                rel.version += 1;
+                count += 1;
+            }
+        }
+        (old, new, count)
+    }
+
     pub fn record_gap(&mut self, desc: &str) {
         self.gaps.push(GapRecord {
             description: desc.to_string(),